STRESS

Similar to anxiety, stress (or stressor) can have a positive effect, in that it can help to conquer problems. Stress in small doses is common and part of all of our lives. However, if stress is prolonged, it can cause health, personal, relationship and career problems.

Physical symptoms may include broken sleep, headaches, rapid breathing, and poor eating.

Emotional symptoms may include anxiety, fear, low self-esteem, anger, feeling guilty, feeling lost or alone.

Psychological symptoms may include confused thinking, difficulty making decisions or concentrating, slow thinking and memory lapses.

Beyond the stressors themselves, other factors can contribute to feelings of stress such as expectations on self and others, perception of the event or situation, unrealistic beliefs, and negative self-talk.

The most common life events that cause stress are below. If you score over 160, it is an indication that you are experiencing a high level of stress.

Stress Measurement

Life Event

Value

Death of Spouse

100

Divorce

75

Separation

65

Death of a Family Member

65

Loss of Job

65

Serious Accident

65

Retirement

55

Serious Ill Health

45

Pregnancy

40

Childbirth

35

Sex Difficulties

35

Financial Difficulties

35

Changing Job

35

Trouble with Boss

35

Relationship Difficulties

35

Heavy Mortgage

30

Motor Accident

30

Child Leaves Home

25

Giving up Smoking

20

Giving up Drinking

20

Changing Residence

20

Changing Social Group

20

 

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